Wednesday, December 22, 2010

The 1R, East Oakland

The 1R bus from Berkeley, CA to deep East Oakland is always an interesting ride. My quote of the day last week from a guy sitting in the back of the bus: "The ugly prostitutes make mo' money than the pretty ones cuz the johns think the pretty ones is cops." Yes, everyday I see the prostitutes on the corner as I head to work.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Taxi driver from Guatemala City to El Quiche

There were no buses on the road from Guatemala to Quiche when I arrived at the airport so I splurged and took a taxi. It meant that I wasn't sitting in my usual spot staring out the window on a bus but started off in the back of a cab. After a few moments, when we had confirmed that there were no buses and haggled a little over the price, the driver pulled over so I could get in the front. What followed was a 2.5 hour conversation on a wide range of topics including a deepening of my understanding on how taxi's work in Guatemala and the beginning of my thought process on "Why we do what we do"...

Sunday, March 7, 2010

Woman selling Burritos at the Taco Truck 35th Ave

"Where did you learn Spanish?" she asked me. "Guatemala," I said. "Oh, I would have guessed South America, maybe Paraguay or Uruguay from your accent," she said...Of course this entire conversation was in Spanish. No one has ever pegged South America on me and one of the Guay's?

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Man with 3 kids at the Burrito stand on 35th

"Wow, you speak Spanish," he said to me as I placed my order for a burrito de pollo. He had a quarter inch scar right below his left eye and was surrounded by three under 8 kids. He told me how the kids were his but not by his wife, how they lived in Sacramento and had never had tacos like the ones they were scarfing down at the moment. They were waiting for the bus. I chatted with him for a few minutes before grabbing my burrito and heading off to work.

Sunday, February 14, 2010

Chattin with E-40's younger brother

So, if you don't know who E-40 is, I suggest googling him but I definitely was not expecting to chat with his younger brother the other day. But that's Oakland for ya. He was on his way to get on a plane to go to NY to do a benefit concert for Haiti. The conversation had so many pieces...

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Cab Driver, Dublin, Ireland

(More posts to come ASAP, we just returned from Ireland and Paris) It was raining cats and dogs. We had just arrived from a 2.5 hour bus ride from Belfast to Dublin. Upon our arrival in Dublin we had instructions to call our friends who lived there but we couldn't reach them and we found out upon arrival that the text message we had sent prior to leaving Belfast had not arrived until a few minutes before our bus arrived. We hopped in a taxi cab and gave him our address. His thick Irish accent popped out as we tried to figure out how to contact our friends before arriving at their house. "Well, I'll just give 'em a ring," he piped in. "Hey, this is Danny. I've got your two friends here and we are about at your place," he left them a message. Just goes to show the hospitality of the Irish.

Friday, December 11, 2009

On the bus in Oakland

Interesting scenario. I was on the bus and one man was talking about just getting out of jail and how if the police had known all of what he did he would have been in jail for life. Then four hours later I was back on the bus headed home and the bus driver was having a conversation with a guy who was talking about "cappin" other folks who showed up with a gun against him.
Definition: single-serving friend

(from the movie Fight Club) A "friend" you meet once, for example on a plane, and never see again.

Every day we pass through people’s lives, sometimes without even noticing that they exist. And half the time, they don’t even know that we exist.

This morning I went to the DMV here in Oakland, CA. I stood in the snail paced line up to the cubicled square island of stations, got a letter followed by a number, G202, and went to sit down in the interlocked plastic chairs for the computer generated voice to call me. Forty-five minutes later I finally got to walk over to station 17 and give in my documents. I walked up to a heavyset African-American women in a blue sweat suit with oval glasses. She barely looked at me as she roughly asked for my documents. I dropped something that she didn’t need from my folder on her desk, I fumbled to find all the things that she needed and she glanced at me with an obvious “hurry up” look of exasperation. Finally I gave her everything with a “I need to have my name changed on my drivers license, here is my marriage certificate.” The expression in her eyes changed and she smiled as she handed me back my application form saying, “you have to fill out this box and put your…maiden, i mean your madden, i mean your…i don’t know what to tell the groom’s, name on this line.” She started laughing and continued, “Damn, that’s what I want, a man who will take my name…Congratulations.” We continued laughing as I paid my fee and 2 minutes later I walked away from her station.

I will remember that 2 minutes for a long time. And hopefully she will smile from time to time as she remembers our encounter. Maybe it will be on a day where she is having a rough time and just needs a smile.

Who are those people you meet in a day whose life you may change for just a moment, who might change your life, who you brush by, who you make laugh, who notice you playing with your cell phone, who you talk to for a few seconds. I go to the coffee shop on Lakeshore every few days and order a large coffee, does the person who takes my order remember me? The light skinned woman with the buzzed curly hair, the man with the limp…

We spend so much time wrapped up in our own worlds that I want to challenge you to notice the “single serving” people who are part of you life. Write a story about someone who passed through you life today, maybe for just a second, maybe for a few minutes and remember the impact they had on your day or that, maybe, you had on theirs…